Many women would rather not talk about sex and only consider it in the old fashioned way. Men can’t stand it if women do (or don’t do) these things during intercourse.

1. If women lie perfectly still

One thing men hate the most is if women do nothing but lie during intercourse and if they expect we serve pleasure to them on a silver platter. Women should be active, even though the man is on top. Writhe around, scratch, grab, show your partner you want him just as much as he wants you. If you only lie there as if you were dead, he’ll soon lose the desire for sex. And his erection as well.

2. If they don’t fondle our body

Almost every woman would agree that she likes hot kisses all over her body. It’s the same with men, even though some of them won’t admit it. Light caressing, sloppy kisses, a warm tongue gently sliding down our body... nothing makes us more aroused. Don’t forget that our nipples are also sensitive and that we also like it if you grab our ass really firmly.

3. If they never take charge

Some old-fashioned women still think that men should be completely in charge during intercourse. This is a mistake! You have to learn to take charge of the action, show him what you want, tell him how to pleasure you, you set the rules. Believe us that your partner will be very excited about this change and he’ll obey your every command with great pleasure, just like an obedient puppy. 

4. If they show no feelings or emotions

Don’t confuse your partner. If you don’t show your feelings loud and clear, men will never know if we’re on the right track or if we got lost on the first crossroads. Don’t be ashamed of screams of pleasure, sighs of delight… Let something out because it will let your man know how you’re feeling at that moment.

5. If they’re not prepared to experiment

If you feel that your sexual life needs to be livened up, if you want to breathe new life into it, then take the initiative and act before it’s too late. Don’t stick to your old tricks. Surprise your partner with a new sexy dress, dance a striptease for him and make him go crazy. Never reject his suggestion just because you’re afraid to try something new. It can’t hurt to try.

6. If they never give the initiative for sex

Men don’t like it if women are never the ones to make the first step. Don’t be too shy and old-fashioned – if you feel like having sex, say it loud and clear. Not many men will reject such an indecent proposal. It’s far more likely your partner will be even more turned on by your clearly-expressed desire. You both win – you get what you want and he’ll know you still want him and aren’t making love to him just because he asked you to.

7. If they don’t stop talking

We all know women like to talk, but don’t talk about the weather and your friend’s new shoes in bed. You should also not discuss what you forgot to buy in the store when having intercourse. Even talks about the kids should be avoided. Forget about everyday things and surrender to the moment. You can naturally whisper a naughty desire or compliment him on his cock. You can’t go wrong with this.

8. If they worry about unimportant things too much …

Face it, sex is passionate and dirty. Don’t be bothered by things that can be broken, neighbours who eavesdrop, new sheets that can become messy. They start washing themselves, cleaning up the mess, changing the sheets… This makes men feel like the sex somehow disrupted your daily routine and defiled the place where you sleep. Don’t ruin the erotic atmosphere, cuddle with your partner and enjoy some snuggling a bit longer.