Today, we are going to take a look at one aspect of love making that many men do not take into consideration while engaged in the act. If only they knew this, they will understand that finding the woman's G-Spot is one of the best thing you can do for your woman.

Every know there is that extra-erogenous zone in a woman but they do not take the time to locate it and set their woman on fire.

For your information, the G-Spot exist in every woman - in truth, many of them do not know they have it because it may have not been discovered yet, either by them or by the man - but as man who wants to give your woman the best of times, you have to make an effort, locate the G-Spot in your woman and stimulate it every time you have sex and give her the best orgasm of her life. And as a reward, she would never let go.

When it comes to sexual satisfaction, women are finely tuned machines. Achieving an amazing orgasm is a combination of mood, mind, stimulation and environment. So it’s no wonder that only a staggering 20% of women achieve orgasm from intercourse alone.

As you may know, women can have several different types of orgasms, but the “holy grail” of all the female orgasms is achieved with the G-spot.

But finding it, and knowing how to pleasure her G-spot is the hard part!

But let us make it quite simple for you.

Finding The G-Spot

First of all, the G-spot is actually a zone, rather than an actual 'spot.' The G-spot is located about 2 inches inside the vagina on the topside, that is the underside of her stomach.

The G-Spot feels like it feels like a ribbed bump, like the roof of your mouth just behind your front teeth. The G-spot is an area about two or three inches inside the vagina, on the front wall, close to the pubic bone. With the right technique, and a bit of trial and error, it can provide lots and lots of pleasure for women including orgasm, multiple orgasms and female ejaculation.

What does it feel like?  You know you have found the G-spot when you come across a bumpy, ridged area about one inch in diameter. It will feel a lot rougher than the rest of the inner vaginal wall. The more turned on she is, the easier it will be to find  because when a woman is aroused, her G-spot gets larger and overlaps into the vaginal canal.

Choosing Your Weapon

Hey, we are not talking of a tool of operation here! We mean the means with which to work the G-Spot of your weapon. You can either use your fingers, thumb or tongue to achieve this.

If you are using your thumb (only in the doggy style position) or finger, make sure you have it relaxed and slightly bent. Most importantly – cut your finger nails so it’s comfortable for her and you don’t tear the fragile tissue of the inner vagina.

Sometimes a finger might be too short. That is when you use your tongue for maximum effect. By the way, did you know that the tongue is the most sensitive part of your body? Yes, just imagine just the tongue giving you different senses of taste.

How You Should Stimulate the G-Spot

While most men would love to satisfy their ladies with intercourse, it’s not always the best idea. Giving her a G-spot orgasm is the best gift you can give your woman.

This however depends on factors like the position, her level of arousal, and penis and vaginal shape and size. So using your finger is the easiest way to take her to that point where there is no return, and with the most chance of success.

Assume Position.

There are two important positions that are most successful for G-spot pleasure. Some women may find the doggy style the most effective as this position pushes the G-spot slightly further out into the vagina, making it easier to find and stimulate.

But if she feels uncomfortable in this position, you can still get results from the ever-faithful missionary position. If you choose to adopt the missionary position, it is best if you can tilt her hips as far up as they can go to open up the best access to the G-spot.

In fact, you are unlikely to hit the G-spot unless she has a pillow placed under her bottom to help this. This will bring her buttocks and hips up so that your penis will find it easy to hit the spot.

Start Right To End Well

We can never over emphasize the importance of foreplay! Most guys believe that once their manhood is erect, the woman should be ready to receive him. He proceeds to hump all over her and in 2-5 minutes, he is done and rolls over. Hey, you are doing yourself and your woman a great disservice because she will be so frustrated and the next time, she will get a headache.

Sorry guys, but it cannot even be put into words how important it is to carry on foreplay for at least 10-15 minutes before you start to go near the G-spot. This involves kissing, touching, caressing, talking a little dirty (we always emphasize this), just to get her in the mood. Remember that some women take quite some amount of foreplay to get aroused, so timing varies.

Whatever gets your partner excited, the time spent on foreplay is crucial for sexual arousal. Without foreplay, the sexual organs, particularly hers, will not engorge with blood and touching the G-spot can be uncomfortable or even painful.

Head On In

When your woman is ready, at that point when she is the one urging you to come into her, you will know you have done a good job.

You know she is ready when her hips begin moving up and down and she’s grabbing at you, while moaning or crying out. That is your entry call. If she is in doggy position, you’ll want the curve of your finger pointed downwards, but if in the missionary position, you’ll need to point it upwards.

Just remember to always have the curve headed towards her stomach, not her back. If using a finger, rub the G-spot back and forth. Only a deep, firm massage will work.

You might find it most effective to make a slow, firm tapping motion on her G-spot but never take your finger off the spot – just keep contact.

Now Relax

This is the time to be the knight in shining armour! When a woman’s G-spot is being stroked, she may feel the need to clench her PC muscles (that is the muscles that she squeezes to stop urine flow). It is important that she avoid doing this. The best combination for achieving G-spot orgasm is firm, steady pressure and keeping the PC muscles relaxed – particularly if your aim is female ejaculation.

As pleasure builds during G-spot massage, a woman will feel the sensation of needing to pee. If she has emptied her bladder before beginning (a good idea!) then you should gently persuade her to let this misleading feeling go and slowly the discomfort will change into unbelievable waves of pleasure.

Then you can bow begin your slow and smooth entry. The very best way to please a woman Is to have an entire ‘bag of ideas’ ready to pull out whenever they’re needed. I cannot stress the need to keep your lovemaking fresh and exciting in every way.