The first mistake anyone could make it not to pay attention to your sex life, especially when it comes to satisfying your partner. Many marriages have been ruined because of this. Over 50% of women that interact with us have never experienced orgasm. They don’t know how it feels, and it’s a huge concern to them. Most of them fake it to please their partners. They tell us everything!



The unfortunate part of this is that most guys are not even aware what their partners are going through, all they do is please themselves but at the same time hurting their relationships. So we decided to do this post to help men understand certain things so their partners will be better satisfied.



1. First things first
Avoiding her lips and racing towards her erogenous zones gives her an unwanted feeling of being paid by the hour and gives an impression that you only want to quickly proceed to the heart of the matter. Long and passionate kisses will spark a flame of desire in her, and you will benefit from it.




2. Sticking your tongue in her ear
Admit it! Friends at school told you that women love it. But there is a big difference between erotic kissing, gentle nibbling of her ear lobes and rough showing of your tongue up to her anvil.




3. Before sex we did not take a shower and brush our teeth
Hygiene is fundamental. If you forgot to take a shower you can be sure that she will notice it. Maybe she will pretend that everything is fine, but when she is turning her head away from you do not mistake it for a sign of passion – she is just avoiding the unpleasant odours coming from your mouth and body.




4. Squeezing her breasts without any feeling
We all know how you love to fondle them, but try to control your enthusiasm. Do not squeeze them, like you are buying fruit. Put both of your hands on them and gently, yet firmly and with care, rock and fondle them. Her breasts are more sensitive than your other toys.




5. Chewing her nipples
Suppress your childhood reflex and do not jump on her erect nipples as soon as she unbuttons her bra. Do not chew on them like a horse on a fresh pile of hay, but circle around them with your tongue, gently lick them, and only then proceed with gentle nibbling.




6. Ignoring the rest of her body
A female body consists of more 'sights' than just two mountain peaks and a tunnel. Do not neglect her other erogenous zones, caress her whole body. Devote your attention to her neck, inside of her thighs, wrists, feet,... Basically, if treated correctly, her whole body becomes one huge erogenous zone.




7. Quick fingers
Our fingers all too often and too quickly reach for her lower regions. We must overcome our obsession with her vagina and stroke her hair, tap her on the ass and scratch her back, before we start messing with her private parts. First we must devote our attention to the region around clitoris and vaginal entrance, and only after we did this can we proceed to the real deal. With feeling!




8. Ups…I came
Premature ejaculation is every man's fear, and rightly so. If you shoot before the main event takes place, have a back-up plan ready. Maybe your fingers, tongue can do the trick.




9. Long distance runners
Even if some men brag about their hour long activities, you can be sure that their women have nothing good to say about them to their friends. Sex which goes on forever can be quite painful and boring for women. Maybe you could buy her a book, so she could read, while you are going for the record.




10. Did you come? Don't!
After the intercourse, never ask a woman if she came. Do you really believe she will tell you the truth? It is more likely that you will embarass her and put her in a bad mood, as she will be forced to lie in order to satisfy your ego. You should know if you performed well, or she will tell you herself.




11. She is in charge during the orgasm 
Do not try to force your rhythm when she is about to finish. Do not grab her by the hair or head, let her move in her own way, the way she likes. After the orgasm take a short break, her clitoris is still very sensitive for some minutes, so any kind of stimulation is very unpleasant.




12. I saw this on the Internet 
Do not use those tricks you learned from porn movies. Real life and real women are completely different from those pornstars. Most of them hate to be choked by your cock or getting sperm all over their face. Leave these things to the professionals.




13. Warn her before you come
Women do not like surprises, especially those that taste like salt water mixed with white of egg. So be considerate and tell her during oral sex when you are about to explode. So she can direct it where she wants it.




14. Thanking her for sex 
You can compliment her, but never ever thank her for sex. I repeat, never! Your bedroom is not a whorehouse. She will loose all the respect she had for you, and her for that matter. You are her challenge, her reward, not some charity event or an act of mercy.