Women are not the only ones who can destroys a relationship, but there are
a few things that a lot of women do that send men running for the hills. In a
every successful relationship, both parties can talk about what is bothering
them or common problems that can be avoided. If you’re starting feel a rift
between you and your guy, you can easily bring him back into the fold by
making a few changes to yourself and the way that you handle issues when
they come up.




1. Too Much Nagging.

Nagging can be one of the most annoying things to a man.
Women that nag instantly get eye rolls from their spouses. It doesn’t matter if
it’s over the trash, dirty dishes or laundry, nagging your guy to do something
over and over again is going to get on his nerves. Keep in mind that an
overbearing mother during childhood can affect a man well into the rest of his
life. If you nag and he has had this in his past, he could find it so annoying
that he leaves you. If he’s doing something that really bothers you, be a
mature adult and talk to him about it. Let him know what he’s doing and how
much it bothers you. Once he knows that it’s a problem, he will change his
ways.

2. Insisting On Marriage Very Early.

Marriage is one of those things that every woman wants. There isn’t a girl on
this earth that doesn’t want to walk down the aisle with the guy of her
dreams. But when you’re pushing marriage too soon you’re going to ruin what
you have. Marriage is a huge step and it should not be taken lightly.
Properly planning for a future with a guy is not something that can happen
overnight. If you’ve been with your guy for over a year and he’s not event
talking about marriage you might have a problem on your hands. But if you’ve
been together for a couple of months and you’re trying to get a ring, you need
to slow it down.
Remember that a marriage is a marriage, not just the wedding.

3. Wanting Him To Do Everything

Here’s a very big problem that a lot of women face.
Traditionally, men have been the breadwinner in relationships. However, the
last 20-30 years have made women even more successful than men in the
workplace. Some women talk about equality until it’s time for the check. If
you’re going to be in a relationship, you need to meet him halfway. This can
extend to finances as well. Compromise is the foundation for every
relationship and without it you will have a very unhappy man.
Always getting your way or always letting him get his way is not going to
accomplish anything. Make sure that your relationship is a 50/50 partnership
or you will find your guy leaving you.

4. Not Saying What Bothers Them.

One of the things that makes men crazy is when a girl does not talk about
what is bothering them.
Men like strong women that aren’t afraid to tell them what they want and
what they don’t want. So many women clam up and get distant when they
don’t like something about the relationship. If you don’t talk to your guy he
could just give up all together and leave you. The truth is that men love when
there are no problems in a relationship. When you work through your
problems he’s going to feel closer to you. Men are used to women getting
distant when they don’t like something or when they are angry so when you
open up to him, you will find that he is much more open and respectful.
Don’t let things fester. This will only make it worse for you and him.

5. Threatening You Want To Quit.

This is something that all men hate in a relationship.
If you are threatening to leave him, you better be ready to do it. When your
guy does something that you can’t stand and you threaten to leave him, he
sees this as a bluff. It’s not until you actually leave him that he’s going to
respect you. So many women threaten to leave their guys every day and
never do. The guy sees this as an empty threat and the behavior just
recycles over and over again. This can easily ruin the relationship.
Men that get away with things and never have ramifications are going to walk
all over you. Make a decision and actually leave him if the behavior does not
get corrected..

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